>>> We are getting this error on just one site.
>>> Maybe we should delete the site and recreate???
>>>
>>> did not issue MAIL/EXPN/VRFY/ETRN during connection to MTA
It shouts of being a connection issue. The remote mail server
connects on a TCP/IP level but then never issues any commands to try
and send the mail to the server and then disconnects (or times out).
You could check any firewalls between the two servers. As this is
only happening for one site I would suggest the problem is with the
remote site more than the server itself.
Is it mail coming from one location to the server or multiple places?
Perhaps an anti-spam measure? Have you changed any of the sendmail
settings such as "greet_pause"?
Dan